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Sep 25Liked by S Tomlinson

Thank you for this post Sarah!!! I have a brother-in-law who is a narcissist and has chosen me to abuse. It’s been a year since I’ve seen him due to boundaries being placed (which he called ridiculous), and healing from 5 years of his nonsense. He denies everything and takes no accountability for his actions. The icing on the cake was his attack on social media about my faith. The enemy was at work in him!!

To say our lives have been peaceful is an understatement…But God…part of my healing was to forgive him but love him from a distance. Once I forgave him, healing began and part of this process was to seek God always. I have never experienced narcissistic behavior until now and to know it is a family member is heartbreaking. My God and His word are my shield and protection and I lift this person in prayer to see the damage he has caused our family and pray his eyes are open to see how God has touched our lives.

I definitely needed to read this today and it came at the exact moment…God’s timing is perfect!!!

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I am so glad this blessed you! I grew up with generations of them and it took me decades to set boundaries. I’m still healing but that’s it… God! ❤️❤️❤️

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Sep 25Liked by S Tomlinson

Absolutely brilliant post Sarah. I lived with a narcissist for years then finally left as it got worse. May God's strength and love be with those who have narcissist's in their lives.

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Absolutely 💯 it’s very hard to break free until you’ve broken free and that hold is lifted.

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