Dear Reader: How Do I Stop Comparing Myself To Others In The Age Of Social Media?
Dear Reader,
Your question echoes my own sentiments so closely that it's almost eerie. The age of social media has indeed ushered in a new era of comparison, one that bombards us incessantly with carefully curated snapshots of seemingly perfect lives. I used to fall into that trap too, scrolling through feeds filled with businesses thriving and influencers radiating success, and feeling like I fell short in every aspect. And don’t even get me started on the curated family pics, the clean, minimal, white walled homes and happy faces with perfectly straight, brushed hair! Comparison was a daily visitor in my life.
But here's the truth: those pictures, those ten-second videos, they're just fragments of a much larger story. They don't show the sleepless nights, the struggles, the doubts, the stress, anxiety, or the moments of vulnerability. They're merely snapshots of a moment, not the entirety of someone's reality.
I've come to see beyond the façade of perfection. I've come to realize that everyone, and I mean, absolutely everyone, is facing battles we know nothing about. Behind the polished exterior lies a tapestry of joys and sorrows, triumphs and failures, just like in our own lives. Don’t let the enemy deceive you by making you believe that the people you see on social media are better or have their lives together. Keep being you and showing your strengths and flaws with honesty. Let others around you know that they don’t have to have the perfect instagram life. Because it doesn’t really exist…
And I want to share something with you… I get messages all the time asking how I have so much wisdom, or how I keep it all together, or how I’m an inspiration. I thank them lovingly, and then tell them the truth. I don’t have it altogether, not even a little bit on somedays, and any wisdom I have, is only because the Holy Spirit writes through me. I don’t want to give others a false facade, I want to bring them authenticity.
So, my dear friend, let's make a pact together: let's stop comparing ourselves to these illusions of perfection. Let's embrace the messy, imperfect beauty of our own lives, knowing that it's in our struggles that our true strength is revealed. And let's extend grace to ourselves and others, recognizing that each of us is on a unique journey, filled with twists and turns that shape who we are becoming.
In a world that constantly bombards us with unrealistic standards, let's be the ones who choose authenticity over illusion, empathy over envy, and kindness over comparison. And let’s not forget the most important thing about social media… It’s a fantastic place to share the love of Jesus. Reminder: Your life is your ministry.
Here’s a question for you… Do you struggle with comparison on social media?
Love,
Sarah xx.
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SNEEK PEEK OF SATURDAY’S FAITH & ME, PAID SUBSCRIBER POST.
We have a whole new way of doing things here at Little Sparrow Loved. Wednesday will be the all subscribers Newsletter delivered like normal to your inbox & Saturday… will consist of the new and improved Faith & Me Update for paid subscribers. It’s longer and covers quite a few topics from My Personal reflections, Recommendations, behind the scenes, my verse of the week and more! Here’s a small snippet of the upcoming reflection…
Diary Entry: Peace Reflection.
The evening finds me on the back verandah, a familiar sanctuary where time seems to slow down. The sun is making its descent, painting the sky in hues of orange and pink. My chickens, faithful companions in their own right, are winding down for the night, their soft clucks a comforting backdrop to the quiet symphony of nature. And above it all, the laughter of kookaburras rings out, a reminder of the simple joys of life.
As I sit here with my mug of coffee, I can't help but reflect on the journey that has brought me to this moment. It's been a year of struggle, a year of wrestling with my own mind. A year ago, I was engulfed in a relentless battle against negative thoughts, each day feeling like an uphill climb towards an elusive peace…
I Hope to see you there!